It used to be said that church was about the only place you could go on a Sunday morning to see a man in a dress.
The dress in question would be a cassock of course and I don’t mean this to be an insult to anyone of an alternative lifestyle (even if I personally disagree with such a life choice – this doesn’t mean I judge you if you make such a choice, I firmly believe that people are free to make life choices of their own but that does not mean that I have to agree with it – real love is loving someone even when they make life choices that are in disagreement with your own life philosophy – maybe we can explore this another time). But I sometimes get asked why I don’t wear a cassock.
The first thing to say is that actually I do wear a cassock but not very often. I have nothing against cassocks – I used to wear one every Sunday. But I am aware just how far going to church is away from many people’s every day experience. It can be a real challenge even to get through a church door. So when inside I also think I must do what I can to help people relax and feel at home. I can play my part by looking more ordinary. We do still meet people in suits and so that is my chosen outfit for leading worship (in really hot weather I might forgoe the jacket).
At our MSM course we thought about how strange it is for people to go in to a church. Having returned to church and I testify to just terrifying it is to just get through the door – and I know what to expect on the other side!
Let’s do everything we can to make people feel welcome.

